Sticking with Breath Practice: The Power of Saturated Practice | SimpleBreath
The Long Road: Early Boredom and Slow Gains
Many people wonder how to stay with a breath practice. During the pandemic years, I wanted to quit countless times. The first month felt boring; ten minutes seemed like an hour, and the abdomen felt like nothing.
By month three, sleep improved a little, yet small triggers still caused anger and inner irritation. Even in the second year, a thought arose: perhaps this is all there is—no miracle.
Breakthrough by Not Chasing Outcomes
I kept going—not because I saw hope and thus persisted, but by persisting, hope slowly appeared. Around the half‑year mark, a colleague said something harsh in a meeting. Previously, I would have snapped back. That time, I paused for three seconds, took a deep breath, and responded calmly. After the meeting, it struck me: I had changed.
Letting Results Go
So I stopped fixating on results. I didn’t track exact sleep hours or whether my temper had “improved.” I simply sat daily at a fixed time, focused on breath, and finished.
Surprises Arrive When You Just Practice
Surprises then arrived one by one: I realized I hadn’t taken melatonin in a long time. Arguments with family happened less often. Even when too busy to eat, warming the abdomen kept hunger at bay and steadied the mind.
The Power of Saturated Practice
This is the magic of saturated practice: when you stop rushing for returns and put all your energy into the doing, time gives the richest reward. In practical terms, extend the exhale slightly, feel warmth in the lower abdomen, and let awareness rest there. Do it daily, gently, without chasing dramatic signs.
A Simple Daily Template
- Choose a fixed time (morning or before bed) for 10 minutes.
- Exhale 1–2 seconds longer than inhale, soften the belly, sense warmth.
- Place attention at the lower dantian; observe thoughts and emotions without following.
- Finish and move on—no scorecards, no self‑judgement.
Persist gently. You will find resilience rising, sleep settling, and relationships softening—not by force, but by time and breath doing their quiet work.